Mensch in the Making

Mensch in the Making are short, interactive situational dilemmas for grandparents and grandchildren to explore together. Each activity begins with a real-life situation children might face, introduces a Jewish value or teaching, and invites discussion, perspective-taking, and decision-making.

Along the way, children build life skills — empathy, responsibility, self-control, and problem-solving — while discovering how Jewish wisdom can guide their choices.

There are no perfect answers. The goal is to think together, listen to one another, and discover the “mensch move” — the response that you feel reflects kindness, integrity, and respect for others. One conversation at a time, grandparents can help shape the character and values that grandchildren will carry into the future.

Feeding the Hungry

Using Jewish wisdom, grandparents and grandchildren explore the value of feeding the hungry — Ha’achalat Re’evim — and discover the “mensch move” together.

Giving Up Too Soon

In a scenario set in a school’s theater group, teens and their grandparents explore whether to give up acting or to persevere.

Harmful Speech

Grandparents and grandchildren discuss gossip, its impact, and how harmful words — Lashon Hara — once spoken, cannot be taken back.

Returning Lost Property

A child finds a lost $10 bill and must decide what to do. This activity explores the Jewish value of returning lost property — Hashavat Aveidah.

Social Status vs. Supporting a Classmate

Teens and their grandparents explore the situational dilemma of social status vs. supporting a classmate as they discover the “mensch moves” together.

Taking Responsibility

After damaging a neighbor’s property, how does a child take responsibility — Achrayut — for their actions?