BEGIN:VCALENDAR VERSION:2.0 PRODID:-//Jewish Grandparents Network - ECPv6.17.3.1//NONSGML v1.0//EN CALSCALE:GREGORIAN METHOD:PUBLISH X-WR-CALNAME:Jewish Grandparents Network X-ORIGINAL-URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org X-WR-CALDESC:Events for Jewish Grandparents Network REFRESH-INTERVAL;VALUE=DURATION:PT1H X-Robots-Tag:noindex X-PUBLISHED-TTL:PT1H BEGIN:VTIMEZONE TZID:America/New_York BEGIN:DAYLIGHT TZOFFSETFROM:-0500 TZOFFSETTO:-0400 TZNAME:EDT DTSTART:20200308T070000 END:DAYLIGHT BEGIN:STANDARD TZOFFSETFROM:-0400 TZOFFSETTO:-0500 TZNAME:EST DTSTART:20201101T060000 END:STANDARD BEGIN:DAYLIGHT TZOFFSETFROM:-0500 TZOFFSETTO:-0400 TZNAME:EDT DTSTART:20210314T070000 END:DAYLIGHT BEGIN:STANDARD TZOFFSETFROM:-0400 TZOFFSETTO:-0500 TZNAME:EST DTSTART:20211107T060000 END:STANDARD BEGIN:DAYLIGHT TZOFFSETFROM:-0500 TZOFFSETTO:-0400 TZNAME:EDT DTSTART:20220313T070000 END:DAYLIGHT BEGIN:STANDARD TZOFFSETFROM:-0400 TZOFFSETTO:-0500 TZNAME:EST DTSTART:20221106T060000 END:STANDARD BEGIN:DAYLIGHT TZOFFSETFROM:-0500 TZOFFSETTO:-0400 TZNAME:EDT DTSTART:20230312T070000 END:DAYLIGHT BEGIN:STANDARD TZOFFSETFROM:-0400 TZOFFSETTO:-0500 TZNAME:EST DTSTART:20231105T060000 END:STANDARD END:VTIMEZONE BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211113 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211114 DTSTAMP:20211108T184333Z CREATED:20211108T184249Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211108T184333Z UID:10000033-1636761600-1636847999@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha Vayeitzei DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-vayeitzei/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20211116T190000 DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20211116T200000 DTSTAMP:20211108T184004Z CREATED:20211108T184004Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211108T184004Z UID:10000031-1637089200-1637092800@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Grandma\, Grandpa Tell Me A Story live event DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/grandma-grandpa-tell-me-a-story-live-event/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211120 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211121 DTSTAMP:20211108T184533Z CREATED:20211108T184519Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211108T184533Z UID:10000035-1637366400-1637452799@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha Vayishlach DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-vayishlach/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211125 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211126 DTSTAMP:20211019T002324Z CREATED:20211019T002324Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211019T002324Z UID:10000027-1637798400-1637884799@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Thanksgiving DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/thanksgiving/ CATEGORIES:Holidays END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211127 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211128 DTSTAMP:20211108T184715Z CREATED:20211108T184715Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211108T184715Z UID:10000037-1637971200-1638057599@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha Vayeshev DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-vayeshev/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211128 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211129 DTSTAMP:20210726T190614Z CREATED:20210726T190614Z LAST-MODIFIED:20210726T190614Z UID:10000019-1638057600-1638143999@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:1st night Hanukkah DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/1st-night-hanukkah/ CATEGORIES:Holidays END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20211129T080000 DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20211206T170000 DTSTAMP:20210726T191517Z CREATED:20210726T191517Z LAST-MODIFIED:20210726T191517Z UID:10000021-1638172800-1638810000@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Hanukkah DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/hanukkah/ CATEGORIES:Holidays END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211204 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211205 DTSTAMP:20211123T222907Z CREATED:20211123T222752Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211123T222907Z UID:10000039-1638576000-1638662399@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha Miketz DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-miketz/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20211207T190000 DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20211207T200000 DTSTAMP:20211123T224653Z CREATED:20211123T224653Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211123T224653Z UID:10000042-1638903600-1638907200@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Inclusive Grandparenting — How We Fully Celebrate ALL Our Grandchildren DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/inclusive-grandparenting-how-we-fully-celebrate-all-our-grandchildren/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211211 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211212 DTSTAMP:20211123T224420Z CREATED:20211123T224420Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211123T224420Z UID:10000040-1639180800-1639267199@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha Vayigash DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-vayigash/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211218 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211219 DTSTAMP:20211214T234211Z CREATED:20211214T234211Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211214T234211Z UID:10000045-1639785600-1639871999@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Family Torah learning with Hadar's Devash: Vayehi DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/family-torah-learning-with-hadars-devash-vayehi/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211218 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211219 DTSTAMP:20211123T224539Z CREATED:20211123T224539Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211123T224539Z UID:10000041-1639785600-1639871999@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha Vayichi DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-vayichi/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211225 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211226 DTSTAMP:20211214T234347Z CREATED:20211214T234347Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211214T234347Z UID:10000046-1640390400-1640476799@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Family Torah learning with Hadar’s Devash: Shemot DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/family-torah-learning-with-hadars-devash-shemot/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211225 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211226 DTSTAMP:20211214T233610Z CREATED:20211214T233610Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211214T233610Z UID:10000044-1640390400-1640476799@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha Shemot DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-shemot/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20211225 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20211226 DTSTAMP:20210726T191555Z CREATED:20210726T191555Z LAST-MODIFIED:20210726T191555Z UID:10000023-1640390400-1640476799@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Christmas DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/christmas/ CATEGORIES:Holidays END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220101 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220102 DTSTAMP:20211218T150935Z CREATED:20211218T150935Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211218T150935Z UID:10000057-1640995200-1641081599@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha: Va'era DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-vaera/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220101 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220102 DTSTAMP:20211214T235254Z CREATED:20211214T235254Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211214T235254Z UID:10000051-1640995200-1641081599@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Family Torah learning with Hadar’s Devash: Va'era DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/family-torah-learning-with-hadars-devash-vaera/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220101 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220102 DTSTAMP:20210804T155443Z CREATED:20210726T191623Z LAST-MODIFIED:20210804T155443Z UID:10000025-1640995200-1641081599@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:New Year’s Day DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/new-years-day/ CATEGORIES:Holidays ATTACH;FMTTYPE=image/png:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/new-years-day.png END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220108 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220109 DTSTAMP:20220115T204539Z CREATED:20220115T204539Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220115T204539Z UID:10000067-1641600000-1641686399@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha: Bo DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-bo/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220108 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220109 DTSTAMP:20211214T235349Z CREATED:20211214T235349Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211214T235349Z UID:10000053-1641600000-1641686399@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Family Torah learning with Hadar’s Devash: Bo DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/family-torah-learning-with-hadars-devash-bo/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20220111T190000 DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20220111T200000 DTSTAMP:20211214T235741Z CREATED:20211210T145240Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211214T235741Z UID:10000043-1641927600-1641931200@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Raising Resilient Kids In A Stressed-Out World: How Grandparents Can Play A Role DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/raising-resilient-kids-in-a-stressed-out-world-how-grandparents-can-play-a-role/ ORGANIZER;CN="Jewish Grandparents Network":MAILTO:info@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220115 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220116 DTSTAMP:20220115T204713Z CREATED:20220115T204713Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220115T204713Z UID:10000068-1642204800-1642291199@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Play-Along Parsha: Beshalach DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/play-along-parsha-beshalach/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220115 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220116 DTSTAMP:20211214T235948Z CREATED:20211214T235640Z LAST-MODIFIED:20211214T235948Z UID:10000055-1642204800-1642291199@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Family Torah learning with Hadar’s Devash: Beshallach DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/family-torah-learning-with-hadars-devash-beshallah/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220117 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220118 DTSTAMP:20220116T200018Z CREATED:20220114T211147Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220116T200018Z UID:10000061-1642377600-1642463999@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Martin Luther King Jr. Day DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/martin-luther-king-jr-day/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220117 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220118 DTSTAMP:20230127T030053Z CREATED:20220114T211036Z LAST-MODIFIED:20230127T030053Z UID:10000059-1642377600-1642463999@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Tu BiShvat DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/tu-bishvat/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220122 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220123 DTSTAMP:20220115T210431Z CREATED:20220115T205518Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220115T210431Z UID:10000069-1642809600-1642895999@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Parashat Hashavua (Portion of the Week) Yitro – family activities DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/parashat-hashavua-portion-of-the-week-yitro-family-activities/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220129 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220130 DTSTAMP:20220204T012822Z CREATED:20220115T205751Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220204T012822Z UID:10000070-1643414400-1643500799@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Parashat Hashavua (Portion of the Week) Mishpatim – family activities DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/parashat-hashavua-portion-of-the-week-mishpatim-family-activities/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220205 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220206 DTSTAMP:20220204T013022Z CREATED:20220115T205954Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220204T013022Z UID:10000071-1644019200-1644105599@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Parashat Hashavua (Portion of the Week) Terumah – family activities DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/parashat-hashavua-portion-of-the-week-terumah-family-activities/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;VALUE=DATE:20220212 DTEND;VALUE=DATE:20220213 DTSTAMP:20220211T015519Z CREATED:20220115T210632Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220211T015519Z UID:10000072-1644624000-1644710399@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Parashat Hashavua (Portion of the Week) Tetzaveh – family activities DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/parashat-hashavua-portion-of-the-week-tetzaveh-family-activities/ END:VEVENT BEGIN:VEVENT DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20220215T190000 DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20220215T200000 DTSTAMP:20220115T210304Z CREATED:20220115T020442Z LAST-MODIFIED:20220115T210304Z UID:10000065-1644951600-1644955200@jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org SUMMARY:Family Room Live! What Grandparents Need to Know About Teens and Mental Health DESCRIPTION:Reading books about death and dying with children can be a safe way to explore complex emotions\, help them understand the concept of mortality\, and serve as a launching point for important conversations with trusted adults.  When choosing books\, consider the children in your life — their level of understanding and maturity\, and their reading level. Most children’s books are written for a specific age range. Yet\, you may find that a young children’s book meets the needs of older children for the direct and straightforward way it addresses the topic of death — that transcends ages.   Some of the following books explicitly include Jewish traditions and ideas\, while others are more universal in their approach.  Note: Descriptions are taken directly from the publishers’ or authors’ websites.  \n \n \n \n Children’s Picture Books About Death  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Goodbye Book\, By Todd Parr (ages 3–6)Through the lens of a pet fish who has lost his companion\, Todd Parr tells a moving and wholly accessible story about saying goodbye. Touching upon the host of emotions children experience\, Todd reminds readers that it’s okay not to know all the answers\, and that someone will always be there to support them.  When Dinosaurs Die\, By Laurie Krasny Brown\, Illustrated by Mark Brown (4–8)To children\, the passing away of a loved one can be especially perplexing and troublesome. This is true whether the loss is a family member\, friend\, or pet. Here to offer advice and reassurance are the wise dinosaurs from the bestselling Dino Tale series. This succinct and thorough guide helps dispel the mystery and negative connotations associated with death\, providing answers to kids’ most-often asked questions.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n I Have a Question About Death\, By Arlen Grad Gaines & Meredith Englander Polsky (5–11)Death is a difficult topic for any parent or educator to explain to a child\, perhaps even more so when the child has an Autism Spectrum Disorder or other Special Needs. The first book of its kind\, I Have a Question about Death uses straightforward text and images and is designed specifically to help all children understand what happens when someone dies.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Children’s Books About the Death of a Parent/Grandparent/Loved One \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Sitting Shiva\, By Erin Silver\, Illustrated by Michelle Theodore (3–5)A little girl grieves the loss of her mother\, but she can’t grieve alone. When her friends and family arrive at her house to sit shiva\, laden with cakes and stories\, she refuses to come downstairs. But the laughter and memories gradually bring her into the fold\, where she is comforted by her community.   Nana Upstairs\, Nana Downstairs\, By Tomie dePaola (3–7)Tommy is four years old\, and he loves visiting the home of his grandmother\, Nana Downstairs\, and his great-grandmother\, Nana Upstairs. But one day Tommy’s mother tells him Nana Upstairs won’t be there anymore\, and Tommy must struggle with saying good-bye to someone he loves.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n French Toast Sundays\, By Gloria Spielman (4–8)When Mina’s beloved Grandma dies\, nothing feels right anymore. People come to visit. Mina just hides up in the big old oak tree. But the stories she hears about Grandma bring her slowly back down until at last Mina feels ready to smile again.  A Flame Burns On\, By Richard Ho\, Illustrated by Carmel Ben Ami (4–8) Each year\, a girl and her mom light a yahrzeit candle on the anniversary of an uncle’s passing.  Even though she was young when he died\, her memories of him shine bright and clear: all the times they went camping\, read together\, and how he was there for every birthday. \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Remembering Candle\, By Alison Goldberg\, Illustrated by Selina Alko (6–8)Grandpa died last November. Now\, one year later on the anniversary of his death\, a boy and his family light a yahrzeit candle to remember him\, and it will burn all night and all day tomorrow until sunset. The boy and his family spend the next night and day remembering Grandpa and sharing stories with each other. Shortlisted for the National Jewish Book Awards Stones for Grandpa\, By Renee Londner\, Illustrated by Martha Aviles (5–9)A little boy and his family gather at the cemetery for the unveiling of his grandpa’s gravestone\, bringing stones to place on the grave\, in the Jewish custom. They tell stories that help the boy deal with his loss\, reminding him of the wonderful memories he has of his grandpa.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n The Turquoise Butterfly\, By Dale V. Atkins\, PhD\, Illustrated by Amelina Jones (4–12)Every summer\, Victoria travels to Grandma Sylvia’s house for an exciting adventure. Grandma embodies the spirit of a vibrant butterfly\, but Victoria is often filled with bubbling nerves\, which leaves her scared and confused. Throughout Victoria’s journeys over several summers\, she navigates the winds of change with Grandma by her side. The Turquoise Butterfly explores our vulnerabilities and unique strengths in this multigenerational\, heartwarming tale.  When a Grandparent Dies: A Kid’s Own Remembering Workbook for Dealing with Shiva and the Year Beyond\, By Nechama Liss-Levinson\, PhD (7–13)The death of a grandparent is often a child’s first encounter with grief. Why did this happen? What should I do? How do I feel? When a Grandparent Dies helps children to participate in the process of mourning\, and to overcome the awkwardness that can often accompany the traditional grieving rituals and events.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Where is Grandpa Dennis\, By Michelle Shapiro Abraham\, Illustrated by Janice Fried (6–10)The daughter [in this book] is named for her grandfather [though she] never knew him. Her mother uses pictures and verbal memories to sketch out why Grandpa Dennis was such an important person in the family.  Will I Ever Be Happy Again\, By Rabbi Avidan Milevsky (2–8)Designed for Orthodox-observant familiesWhen a special person dies\, it can be confusing for the children who were close. Will I Ever Be Happy Again? combines a child-friendly explanation of the post-death Jewish rituals with activities that encourage children to express their thoughts in words and pictures\, helping them cope with their loss.  \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Additional Recommended Resources \n \n \n \n \n \n \n \n Book Lists:   Good Reads: YA Death & Dying Books Kveller.com PJ Library Tablet Magazine Podcasts  NPR — The Dog isn’t Sleeping: How to Talk with Children About Death Park Avenue Synagogue — How We Talk About Death and Dying The Dougy Center — Let’s Hear it for the Kids: Grief in Their Own Words Videos BimBam — How to Talk to Your Kids About DeathDaniel Tiger’s Neighborhood — Blue Fish is DeadSesame Street — Big Bird Learns About Death  Banner photograph courtesy of Unsplash  URL:https://jewishgrandparentsnetwork.org/event/family-room-live-what-grandparents-need-to-know-about-teens-and-mental-health/ END:VEVENT END:VCALENDAR